how not to ask a girl out

so, last week on the plane we were going from LAX to SFO and it was a very light flight. i was standing in the back talking to a Netjets pilot that was headed to SFO to start a trip. we were just talking and then he tells me that he's just going to "lay something out" for me and this is what he tells me ~

"i'm 38 years old. i own my home in huntington beach. i have a good job. i've been in two long term relationships but i've never been married and i don't have kids. i don't want to get married or have kids. so don't try to change my mind on that in 4 years. i normally don't date flight attendants but i thought i'd give you a chance"

wow. well, i'm going to say no the date but if you ever need someone to stay at your house while your gone let me know.

can you believe he was surprised that i said no to that offer!? i told him that i couldn't believe he thought i'd say yes to that. then we had a whole weird conversation after that about dating. with quality offers like this i don't know why i'm still single........